Sunday, May 27, 2012

5 years 5 days

Hello people. How's your weekend? Mine was great! 
Some people said 5 years is a big number for a relationship.
Some ask how do u manage to be with this one for years.

My answer would be:
When I can be myself around that person, that is the person
I'm going to marry. And it's you, love.

To us;
May everything that we plan for this year and years onward
come true with all the blessings :)

Thursday, May 17, 2012

Clingy Girlfriend

Hello ladies! :)

See the title above? Well, that's what I want to share today. Oh, before that, this is not just about clingy girlfriend as in couple relationship. Sometimes, this happens when you befriend with girl; you know the normal girls friendship. Yeah, I'm talking based on my experience. And that's what my post is about today.

Okay, start marking my words now. This type of girl will do all the listed below:

#1 She approach you nicely. Yela kan, org nak buat jadi bff kan, kena la cakap elok2. And then, once you're comfortable with her then the 'drama' starts.

#2 She always telling her personal problems, even you just knew her. Everyday come with every different problems. From my experience, this behaviour is to gain sympathy so that she would not be left alone.

#3 She starts to control you. You cannot go lunch with someone else. She wants to join the hangout you planned with your other friends which she don't even know. And the feeling I had at that time is really confused and a bit suffocating. 

#4 The most annoying behaviour is when she starts to act immature. You know the kind of childish act like sulking, cold shoulders etc. What I did, I ignore her. Haha!

What you need to do when you accidentally befriend this kind of girl?

My first approach is I slow talk with her. State clearly that you don't like this clingy attitude and ask her to at least behave if still wants to be your friends. Oh yes, depends on the level of her 'clingyness', I suggest you choose your words wisely. Sometimes this clingy girlfriend, can be very sensitive and also to the extend she can be a psycho. So, be careful. But, if that doesn't work, then the best thing to do cut off the friendship. It's not good for you, so why bother?

Lastly, ask this to yourself?

If no, then good! Yeay for you :)

If yes, please change because in the long term, you'll lose many friends and in the end you would not have any friend to share all your memories with. 

Images: From Mr Google

Sunday, May 13, 2012

Mid May

Hello people :)

To those who still reading this blog, million thanks to you!!! I rarely have the time to update but still I try to click the 'new post' button once in a while. The purpose of this blog, which is to share with my readers still has not changed. So, today's update is what I've been doing lately.

Firstly, I'm a working girl (girl??..haha) now and it's almost two months now. Alhamdulillah, I love my job :) I'm working in accounting firm, specialized in taxation. So, anyone who has any query about this area, you can ask me..hehe. Last month, is very busy month for me even though I'm still new. But, for me if you like your job, then no excuses would be given, right? :p

Oh, yes, what's normal for any working people is the excitement when the weekend comes. Yeah, I know the feeling! hehe. It started right after lunch time every Friday. My weekends so far was great. Last week I watched The Avengers with my love. 

So, happy weekend everyone!! Well, it is still Sat... oops.. it's already Sunday. And the routines resume on Monday :)