Thursday, November 24, 2011

Little Woman


I came across ugly truth early this week. Well, the thing made me feel really disappointed. Big time. The person you trust, lied straight to your face. Without her eyes blinking. Wow, when I was at that age, I lied too. But within 10 seconds, the lie would be detected. And how grateful I am, my father punished me at that time for lying.

Yes, I'm not going to portray how perfect I am when I was 13 in this post. Instead, I want YOU to know what a big mistake you made when you lied to the people that love you for the one guy that just confessed he love you about less than a week ago.

I told my besties about this situation as they are also the eldest. I think they're right. The time has changed. And so do kids these days. Oh, sorry, not kids, it's little women and gentlemen wanna-be's. But still, what I think the real deal here is about peer pressure.


Dear YOU, little kids who assume you're a woman at the age 0f 13,


Read this carefully, as I won't tell you direct to your face again.

Little woman #1: My boyfriend is sooooo caring! He thought me how to do fractions! (duhhh)

Little wonan #2: My boyfriend is so romantic. He bought me this gummy bears candies. Cute!

Little woman #3: My boyfriend is perfect. His hair is like Justin Bieber!!! (bluerghhh)

And as other little women hear these they all want to fit in. So, they started to find their so-called "soul mates".

"Why try to fit in, when you should be standing up"

Come on! At that age, it's not love. Seriously, it's just peer pressure so you could have the same topic to gossip and boast. Then, you would fit perfectly with the others.

And those friends of yours, just one glance at them, I know, they would never be the true friends. The true ones, would insist for you to focus on your study, not anything else.


Why want to commit now,
when the right one will come along in just next 7 years, perhaps?
Why want to grow up so fast,
when you still don't know what's the meaning of responsibility?


I've seen these kind of things during my time. You know, girls wasting their time chasing boys when they're so young. Then got broken heart. And their studies eventually..well.. they don't get to go anywhere.

The time will come eventually;
the time when your parents approved your guy,
the time when your date can come to your home and take you out,
the time when you don't have the needs to make up great stories about your guy,
the time when you know, this is the one.

Well, I know for certain. How? Been there, done that.

Lots of love,
Your big sister

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