Tuesday, February 23, 2010

Silence

"camne ko blh ngan die?"
"cam x caye la"
"aku ingt lagi cite dlu camne"

All those comments I just read silently.
And it's on my BF's FB.

Silence doesn't means I agree. It doesn't means I'm afraid. Sometimes I just think. It usually my best weapon to strike back.

Do u guys ever been in a situation where it isn't your place to comment about others' personal life but u did it anyway? One piece of advice, DON'T do it. Respect others and u'll get yours.

This post never meant I'm putting a fight with you guys. But, recently you crossed the line. If u are girls, I do understand.. girls will always gossip. But guys??? I don't know what to say. Supposed as we grow older, we mature.

I try to forget about your comments but I seemed to be getting upset about it. What's your right to comment that way? Maybe, you just joking around but it doesn't seemed like it. Somehow, you words managed to hurt me. I don't want to know anything about your guys' gossips. Plus, it was years ago.


People changed. I changed. You guys?? Don't talk about me like u know me. You don't even know me that well. Plus, you guys are not perfect either. kan? So tolong jangan wat komen yg aku rase mmg korang xperlu buat. Know your boundaries.
I was raised with non-judgemental views. I try to view everyone as a good person. But what can I say.. different people, different mentality. hmmm...

What past is passed. My current relationship doesn't reflect the past ones. He is one of the best things happened in my life. I sincerely love him and he knows me well enough. That's it.. enough said :)

I think u guys know who u are.

10 comments :

Inora Putri. said...

lelaki nih mulut lagi jahat dari pompuan, so beware. =D

Aiza Aidid said...

agak la kan.. tp mulut org bkn leh tutp pon..hihi ;)

Markjue said...

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Aiza Aidid said...

hahaha.. of coz not all ;)
but lately guys mmg byk gosip.. dorg sndr ngaku tu ske gosip..wahaha ;D

thanx neway. i'll check ur blog k ;)

Echah Sarudin said...

mulut laki lebih bahaya sebenarnya..hehe

Aiza Aidid said...

ahahaha.. kan kan? abes la aku kne pasni..haha =)

Lt. fDanialz said...

biasanya lelaki jarang sangat suke gosip dan bizibodi pasal orang lain..

tapi tak dinafikan ada lelaki yang mulutnye sangat jahat.. well i didnt call them as as guy.. tapi pondan
ha3

Aiza Aidid said...

tula kan.. bese guy x cm2..
that's wat i thought! ahahaha..
gentlemen bese x kepoh2..hehe ;D

atreyu strange said...

I've seen things like this before. And of course the best thing to do is just put a blind eye on. But how long can you go on LYING to yourself that you're not pissed off with people who can't stop talking trash about you?

At some point, I would react. We are not always perfect but some people need to be reminded.

Aiza Aidid said...

yes.. we have our own limit. and the point i lose mine actually when i posted this.

neway, thanx dropping by =)